My philosophy
Hi, I’m Tom.
I’m a BACP registered, DBS checked, CPCAB qualified, integrative and holistic psychotherapist working with adults and young people. Registered BACP Member: 415630
I’m of the belief that therapy is a place where we can truly be ourselves. Where we don’t have hold it together, where we don’t have to be what society expects us to be, where we don’t have to be clever, brave, fixed, funny or fine.
It’s a space for honesty, uncertainty, grief, confusion, humour, contradiction, even some wildness at times - and for discovering what it means to be more fully yourself.
I believe that connection is the most powerful driver in therapy, and I believe in the great Professor Irvin Yalom’s opinion that the therapeutic relationship is itself, above all, the healer. That when we’re met fully, truly understood, and truly cared for, that’s when something within us begins to soften. And that’s when change begins.
As Dr. Lou Cozolino puts it, “It’s not survival of the fittest, it’s survival of the nurtured.”
Therapy therefore has to be a nurturing space, where the moment you walk through the door (virtual or otherwise), you feel heard, held, prized and cared for. Where you work alongside another, in partnership, towards understanding yourself more fully, at more depth.
I’m not here to diagnose or label. I’m here to meet you - as you are, where you are. And to help you meet yourself with more kindness, more honesty, and little bit more hope and love.

My background
My training is in person-centred counselling, and integrative and holistic psychotherapy. My focus, above everything, is rooted in the relationship. I work relationally, person-to-person, heart to heart, smile to smile.
So much of my inspiration comes the great hearts of history, but also the people around me: my teachers, my friends, my colleagues, and my own therapist too. I’m inspired by those who unapologetically exude authenticity, those pure souls, and those prioritising kindness above all.
Much of my work is with young adults under the age of 40, with teenagers and with children - those on the cusp of big change, identity shifts, or emotional overwhelm.
I’ve also worked closely with men as a mentor, as a football manager and as a therapist too; navigating anger, shame, loneliness, and what it means to be ‘enough’ in a world that rarely pauses for breath.
Before training as a therapist, I was a journalist writing about sports, mental health, masculinity, class and capitalism - and that background still shapes how I see the world.
I’m interested in how systems shape our inner selves - how culture can silence us, how pressure can harden us, and ultimately, how therapy can bring us back to something more human and more real.
How I work and the approach I take within sessions
To build on my person centred foundations, I also gently bring in approaches that help calm the nervous system and support deeper change, such as:
- Exploring how past experiences still live in the body
- Helping you understand and work with anxiety, anger, and emotional overwhelm
- Supporting self-worth and identity, especially after trauma or loss
- Practical tools for regulation, grounding, and emotional balance
- Looking at how relationships, environment, routine, nutrition, and stress affect how you feel
- Helping you move out of survival mode and into something more settled and connected
You’re always in control - nothing is imposed, and everything is discussed collaboratively.

Words from previous clients…
“Tom has been a god send with my 7 year old son, we’ve noticed such a difference with him since taking him twice a month. Good communication and well worth the money. Thankyou for your support.”
“I’ve had 8 sessions with Tom so far, and I couldn’t imagine a more supportive therapist. I hold a lot of anxiety from past experiences and Tom allows me to talk through my emotions with zero judgement, full support and empathy. I’m truly so grateful for everything he’s helped me with so far.”
“I was with Tom for a very short period of time however he was very helpful, knowledgeable and always bringing in new ideas/information every week!”
My CV
Counsellor at My Solution Wellbeing: 2025 -
Providing face to face and online counselling for an agency in Nottingham and Birmingham charity, working adults, children and young people from the age of 7.
Counsellor at Chilwell School and Sixth Form: 2025
Providing face to face counselling as an on site counsellor for a secondary school and sixth form college in Nottingham.
Counsellor at CASY: 2024 - 2025
Providing person-centred face to face counselling for a children’s charity, working with children and young people between the ages of 6 and 24.
Counsellor at Affordable Counselling Networking: 2024 - 2025
Providing person-centred online counselling for a non-profit, working with adults.
Mentor at Change Grow Live: 2021-2023
Providing mentorship for teenagers in the Derbyshire area.
Football Manager at Beeston Old Boys Association: 2023-2024
Managing an adult men’s football team in the Nottinghamshire Senior League division 1.
Freelance journalist: 2010 -
Writing, podcasting and broadcasting for several industry-leading publications including the BBC, Sky Sports, The Guardian and The Independent with a specific focus on football, culture and politics.
My education
Current Training - Level 6 Postgraduate Certificate and Diploma in Holistic and Integrative Psychotherapy (HIP)
2025 -
The Reach Approach
Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling (TC-L4)
Central Training the Midlands (CTTM)
2023 - 2025
Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Studies (CST-L3)
Central Training the Midlands (CTTM)
2023 - 2025
Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Skills (CSK-L2)
Central Training the Midlands (CTTM)
2023 - 2025
Core Competence for Working Therapeutically with Children & Young people
CASY
2024
Safeguarding for Counsellors working with Children & Young People
CASY
2024
ILM Level 3 Leadership & Management
Challenge Consulting
2019-2020
Education Studies (BEd)
University of Derby
2010-2013
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